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I can't wait to hear more about boyfriend dark hair. and I LOVE how you crossed into adulthood with this move, this "wtf dood" move. You are stronger than most of us gal! xoxo

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Doc dude was quaking in his boots! ;)

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Sep 11Liked by Henriette Ivanans

A horrible experience for anyone to endure, especially so young- I’m sorry you had to go through it. Thank you for sharing your experience, which you’ve crafted into such a lovely piece of writing.

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I was so happy to find you here, Australia! I am dedicated some time this week to check out your pieces! Thank you for reading and reflecting on this segment of my medical journey.

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Sep 11Liked by Henriette Ivanans

Unbelievable! Doctors are human, but to mess up a biopsy like that! Sometimes they will numb the area before the IV goes in, but the numbing needle hurts, too. At least you were able to make adult choices about your health.

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I know. I still shake my head at that one! xx

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Sep 11Liked by Henriette Ivanans

I felt each pain , heard each sound , and feared each and every word you had to absorb into your young mind. Your memories are neon to me. I wish I could just hug your Mother then and now. What a warrior she raised.

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I might have to steal “your memories are neon!” 😉

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Sep 11Liked by Henriette Ivanans

Oh my poor Henriette! What you have gone through in your life, beginning at such a young life, is reprehensible! You are such an incredibly strong woman to have survived and flourished! You are my hero!!❤️

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One thing is for sure, I didn’t survive any of it alone. Grateful for hearts like yours, Marli!

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Sep 16Liked by Henriette Ivanans

Noted! But you are such a shining star!🌟✨

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Sep 16Liked by Henriette Ivanans

This isn’t my first time... Funny and horrific, and a foreshadow of things to come. Beautifully written, so hard to read in the best of ways. I love you.

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Unable to articulate how your brilliant editing and steadfast support has impacted me. Love you, warrior woman. xx

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Your strength, courage and ability to still write about this in a factual , yet human way! Sharing all the feelings that came through your mind and body, as you endured such a gruesome procedure! And so, of course, you should have been angry. What did they expect?

Another powerful piece of writing! Words flow in a magical way in your writing, as always.

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This fills me with confidence and gratitude. I hope others can find themselves in these medical stories in the same way others' stories saved my life. xx

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I seriously cannot believe they took out the wrong tissue! 😳😳😳 I know things happen, but seriously!?! You never cease to amaze me my friend! So strong and brave. Love you

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